A little help from the Netsmog ladies...

[Keefe]

I would like some honest opinions from the girls of Netsmog.com.

What kinds of things do you do to let a guy know that you are intersted in him? SPAMWhat do you say, do, or even subconsciously think about doing?

Thanks!

[aoC_PRoZaK]

oh, some good old question to the girls. although i´m not a girl , lemme tell ya ma theory. they don´t do anything. if they look good, and this is the reason why you like 'em ( besides of beeing intelligent or rich) a lotta other guys want them too. they will never move their butt upon u and say, "keefe, you're such a goodlooking and smart guy, won´t ya take me home with you and show me where unbeleivable good sex ends and love begins", they´ll just hang around until some man comes along and shows 'em he really wants her. if that happens she will at first not show any sign of interest until she is assured you really want her, even if you have to beat up the SPAM6 other guys that are pacing around her. and then, either you are a lucky guy and have good fun for a longer times or you get hurt by her. maybe you even get beaten up by the 6 other guys that are angry 'cause you touched "their girl" ;D

[Propig]

It's good to be cool with out being an ass. It's good to be a hunk with out being egotisitical. If you have a nice bod don't fluant - accentuate.

Look for girls who aren't looking. Don't let them know you are looking .....and then.... turn on the charm.

Don't even think about sex. Girls can tell when you only want sex. (I think it has to do with auras.) And unless she is a sex freak or after a non-commited one night stand this will be a total turn off.

Remember its the little things that count the most.

I am only one opinion, but I hope it helps.

[thetechfreak]

so keefe, whos the girl ;) ;)

[tomboylj]

Well Keefe, You need to let the lady know your interested first. Then see how she responds. SPAM:P :P SPAMThen of course there is the old stand by.......make her feel really good about herself. SPAMLike.... I know you probally get asked out by a ton of guys but would your consider going out with me? Good Luck.

[Propig]

tomboylj has a good point there. Girls definitely like to feel good about themselves. Just don't over do it or they will think it is fake.

Get this. I was watching the news last night and according to their research. Girls go for guys that shave with an electric shaver!

They are supposed to be more romantic or something like that.

Personally, I like the rough look.

[thetechfreak]

propig... were you the one who said she was going to put up her profile pic ages ago... just thought id remind you ;)

keefe.. honestly.. is the girl your talkin about the first 'Hot Babe' cuz if it is good luck ;)

[jinx]

Can't say that you will know any more when this thread ends than when it began. Truth is, most girls may not do anything to alert a guy that they are interested in him.
YOU are the one to alert her that you are interested in her. Then ask for dates. If she turns you down numerous times then the brain dead would get the picture. There is a life after rejection.
If you do get a date, show some thoughtfulness, like a small gift, a jesture of kindness, a box of chocalates, a CD of her favorite artist etc and a card of thanks for accepting a date with you SPAMwould certainly be in order.
But you should make the first move, and remember the timely and age old proverb:
" Faint heart never won fair maiden ! "
Don't put much stock in all this crapola of girls always wanting a 'hunk' or 'hulk', all pure bull, just go down to the mall, get a cup of coffee and watch the couples go by, what you will see is the most beautiful babes holding on to a 'blow dried twirp', that could be 2 ft shorter than her. And lots worse.
Some good advice from a father and grandfather, take it or leave it, doesn't make a hoot to me.
SPAM

[aoC_PRoZaK]

jinx, you're already grandfather :o. seems like the point is: be nice, be polite, show her you like her (and my special tip: talk to her by an instant messenger if she got a computer. most of us are most selfassured where they feel this "i'm at home, nobody can do me no harm" feeling, so i think this is the best way to show some schweet natural charme. btw, keefe, would you mind to tell us how old you are. SPAMif it comes to girls, this is an important factor 'cause women in different ages have different points of view

[aoC_PRoZaK]

wether ya post it or not, doesn't make a difference for us @ all

[techman]

When it comes to ladies, I have the biggest problem because I am too scared and/or afraid to put the moves on. SPAMI know that all they can do is say no, but rejection hurts. SPAMAnd, you feel weird when you are with the person after they shut you down. SPAMYa know?

[coffejor]

Yeah, everything gets weird after rejection. Why do girls have to be so confusing?

[Aoshi]

i dunno jordan, i dunno. but yeah after rejection they cant talk to you anymore for a while, its weird

[wizbones]

I think this thread should be changed to "A little hlep from the Netsmog Lady" being Propig is the only female to post in it SPAM:P

Venus:Mars sound familiar?

[Propig]

I think of myself as just one of the guys.

And thetechfreak, I have been old I look like Sissy Spacek in the movie Carrie. I can't post pictures from work because we have been blocked from uploading and downloading stuff. These guys are on some kind of super power trip.