I just wanted to give an update as to how this all played out....After the detective at the police station sent a subpoena to Yahoo! and his ISP, it didn't take them long at all (just a couple of days) to get the information back to him. And as we suspected all along, it was her. When the detective went her house to confront her, her defense was that 'she didn't know it was against the law' (yeah right!?!) ...Anyway, he confiscated her computer and found out that apparently what she Really wanted was to find out about ME (creeped me out when I found out that the only stuff she'd printed out of his email was about me...nothing about their legal battle, his financial info, etc...nope, just stuff about me ) So the long and short of it is that she's now accused of "computer tampering" which is a misdemeanor. She'll have to appear in court and it will be on her record. I'm just hoping that that will be enough to deter her from doing it in the future!