question about remotely connecting
 

is there a way to connect to a different computer at a different location from your computer at home??? i know you can use windows messenger and remotely connect then you can see and play around with everything the other person has on their comp, but is there another way to do so by yourself without the other person accepting?

yes....but thats illegal unless it is your own computer

yes.. we call that illegal tresspassing and (possibly) manipulation of private property