ohhhhhhhhh i get it now xmerclordx......all your reasons are 100% selfish! oh that makes perfect sense!
ok..... like it or not, people do not have to be married to have kids.... GAY PEOPLE CAN STILL ADOPT married or not. Don't forget about artificial insemination either.
Also "I'd be somewhat dissapointed in the respects that my family name and history will not genetically/bloodline continue, and that I haven't done my job as a parent" I'm sorry, but what the hell is up with that..... are you saying that my parents didn't do their job and weren't good parents because i'm not straight? i mean all they ever did was support me in everything i did, teach me what i needed to know to make good decisions for myself and be responsible..... no i guess my parents didn't do their job.
Again..... gay or straight isn't a choice...... you can either accept if your child is gay and allow them to happily live their life, or you can be disappointed because you "didn't do your job" and because your "blood" won't go on...... parenting has nothing to do with whether or not a kid will be gay, it only affects how a person will respond to it once they realize it. If they are taught to accept people's differences and that you will accept them for who they are, they will probably end up happy and fulfilled, unfortunately if you teach them that it is wrong (as i'm assuming you would from the way you talk on here) then they will believe it is wrong and try to deny it, most likely end up depressed and lonely.... or they may try to fake it, so they don't disappoint you, get married like you want them to, maybe have a couple kids, only to end up divorced. well at least your bloodline will live on......
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